I have allergic rhinitis. So, sneezing in the early mornings is nothing new. It would be gone mid-morning so I do not really mind.
However the past three years have seen me sneezing almost everyday and every night! This was right after giving birth and moving in with my husband. I initially thought this was a natural consequence of giving birth and the sleepless nights soon after – compromised immunity. My other suspect was the A/C and fan. My body is cool temp avert. So, I would layer my clothes and sometimes even use my husband’s sweater, to no avail. Thus, I just let it be. Antihistamines still work, anyway.
A few days ago, though, in the middle of my sneezing, my 3-year-old daughter said, “mom, you achoo-ed because of that,” pointing to the dreamcatcher. It has been hanging there for quite a while now. It is one with the feathers. Because I value my daughter’s inputs and I thought it made sense, I kept the dreamcatcher in the drawer.
Alas! Like magic, the itchiness in my nose was right away alleviated. As the minutes passed, the more it cleared. Today is day 4 after I put the dreamcatcher away and no allergy attack since! It has been a very looooong time since my nostrils felt this wonderfully free!
Amazing how the actual root cause of the problem was easily left out, even if it was right there staring me in the eye, while I desperately attempted several band-aid solutions or worse, simply suffered the problem and for a time, accepted it as a fact of life.
If I had an hour to solve a problem I’d spend 55 minutes thinking about the problem and 5 minutes thinking about solutions. – Albert Einstein
Quote gathered from Good Reads‘ collection of problem solving quotes.
Indeed, proper identification of the problem is key before moving on to the problem solving process.
Verywellmind.com clearly outlines the Overview of the Problem-Solving Mental Process. Here’s just a condensed version.
- Identifying the Problem
- Defining the Problem
- Forming a Strategy
- Organizing Information
- Allocating Resources
- Monitoring Progress
- Evaluating Results
Looking back, it was steps 6 and 7 that I missed. If I did, I must have gone back to rethink the reasons and perhaps have zeroed in on the dreamcatcher sooner.
Anyhow, thanks to my father-in-law, who refused to reach for the dreamcatcher when she asked for it and explained that it might cause her to achoo, and praise God for my daughter’s ability to apply what she learned, early in life.
How about you? Are you suffering allergies or so, for quite some time now? Maybe the real cause of the problem is still in hiding. Go on, try the problem solving mental process. Who knows?!
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